Monday, April 6, 2026

March 2026 - Mother's Lasts

Emily here again, posting for my family. We'll see what the continuance of this blog looks like... for now, I'm finishing catching up through the rest of Mother's life, and a few photos from the funeral, so we have a completed representation of this chapter.
Early March - Mother had many visitors, which was such a blessing to her as she loved people!! Elizabeth was good to picture each visitor. 
As we look back at the pictures, we are still in shock of how quickly Mother declined and then passed away. It was fast and sudden in a way, even though we've known she's been declining since September.

Randy surprised Mother by flying in for a few days (March 4-9). He had very recently had knee- replacement surgery so Mother was even more shocked. In this picture he was using our ice-machine for his knee.


Mother had a total of 5 iron infusions. I think March 5 was her last.
March 6 was our last time to take her on a walk in her wheelchair.
March 6 the Stetlers stopped by for a visit.
March 8 - video-chatting with Grandpa Scoles
March 9 our friend Lonnie Witt stopped by.
March 10 - Mother trying to drink a protein drink.
Jason and Karen came over to visit on March 10th also.
March 10 the Stroud family visited, prayed, and loved on us.
March 11 Mary Tallman brought some food that Mother was able to eat, played some piano music and sang with Elizabeth, and loved on Mother.
March 11 Mother's dear friend Lynell came for a few days.
March 12, Stacey Stine stopped by for a visit.
March 13 my parents went to what turned out to be their last oncologist doctor appt, where they, with the doctor, decided to start hospice and not do any more treatment besides pain control. We are thankful for all her doctor and team have done for her over the last 5 years.

Trying to eat a little after that appt.
March 14, trying to finish her commitment to GBS to edit the Revivalist magazine, one last time.
March 14 the Stetlers and Lawsons came for a visit.
Lynell saying goodbye after having spent a few days with Mother.

March 15 Mother had a lot of visitors through the day.
Valorie Quesenberry stopped by for a short and sweet visit.
Janaye Byers stopped by for a visit and brought this little potted flower.
Becky and Ron Profitt (Rowen's sister and brother-in-law) visited.
The Soderna family came by and brought a meal.

The Witt family also visited.

They sang a beautiful song about going to heaven. Mother asked them to sing it at her funeral, which they did.
March 16 Nikita Black came to visit.

March 16, Regina Stetler came by to say goodbye, as they were headed out of town for ministry.

March 16, Tim and Brenda's family arrived to say goodbye to Mother.
Piper giving Grandma cards she had made for her.
March 17 Linda Scott stopped by and brought a meal.
Mother did some recordings of prayers/blessings for her family. Tim had bought them this microphone to pick up her voice as her volume was decreasing.
March 17 Sonja Vernon visited Mother.
March 17 Tim and Brenda's family with Mother.
Praying before they left.

Jeffrey and Lesa drove all day the 17th to Emily's in OK, then all three of them drove overnight and arrived on the 18th at 10 a.m. Mother was in and out of consciousness, but she woke and recognized them as they came in.
Jeffrey and Lesa greeting Mother and saying goodbye to her.

Jason and Karen arrived soon after Jeffrey, Lesa, and Emily, and she also recognized them. Daddy was trying to help Mother rest back in her chair in this picture, as she was a little agitated.

Mother went unconscious that afternoon and didn't wake up till she woke up in heaven on March 20th.
We had a sweet and somber day together, singing and playing music, talking quietly to Mother.

March 19 Randy and Joy's family from SD arrived early in the morning. We thought Mother might slip away to heaven any moment. We had 3 hymn sings in the living room throughout that day, praising the Lord together, comforting our hearts with the truth from the songs, and ushering Mother into God's presence when it was time for her to go.
Tim came again for most of the day, so we got one last family picture of the original 8 of us, about 7 hours before Mother went to heaven. What a gift from God to be together.
Mother peacefully went to heaven on March 20, 1:44 a.m. with Rowen and several of us children near her.

The days that followed were sweet, being together with all the family, working on funeral plans, grieving and rejoicing, etc. Many many meals were brought to us by dear church people, which was such a blessing to us. We went on some picnics, got outside, walked, played games together, and shared memories of our dear wife, Mother, and Grandma.

The visitation for Mother was on March 27, at God's Bible School & College.
The funeral was the following morning, also at GBSC.

Rowen

Our whole family (and Mother's Scoles family in the slideshow in the background)

All of Mother's siblings came to the OH/KY funeral.
We received many beautiful flowers and plants in Mother's memory, and also this garden stone.
March 30 sunrise on our way to Joplin MO for the second service and graveside which happened on March 31.

Grandpa Scoles was able to come for the Joplin service.
Grandpa and his great-granddaughter Mandylyn.
Mother's grandchildren put roses in her casket.

Mother's sons and two oldest grandson were the pall-bearers.

Randy officiated the graveside service.

It was a beautiful weathered day for it and we thanked God for clearing the rain away.

April 1 we stopped by the grave before we headed out of town.


At both services we were blessed by many family and friends who came to honor Mother's life!
Thank you for following along on this journey with us. Thank you for praying for Mother's cancer journey and praying for us as we continue on without her. Although we grieve, we rejoice that she is no longer suffering and with her Savior Whom she loved and served all her life! What hope we have in Jesus!